[Disclaimer: Please read with caution as this entry contains subject matter and emotions of an angry and disturbing nature. Note, optimists and my naive friends who have seen nothing of the truly bad things of the world, have never had friends betray you, and think the world is a fair place, where good things happen to good people and bad people end up alone and miserable....please don't read this. I would hate to shatter your fragile world image]

So it isnt always easy to be happy for our friends.We all know this. Example: Barbie #2 continues to spend blissful weekends with her tall, smart, funny, PERFECT boyfriend while I'm stuck on the blind date circuit from hell and I need a passport to visit the man I'm in love with! But I am happy for her! Really!

So we've established that it can be hard to be happy for our friends, but we are. But it's damn near impossible to be happy for our enemies. And please understand, there are a very very few people in the world i would consider "my enemies". There are a fair number of people I dislike, to be sure. But i don't like the word "hate" and so use it with extreme caution...like chili powder. However, some definitely deserve the title. I won't elaborate why...long story....let's just say that the very worst enemies were once friends.

Which brings me to the subject of my entry... Why do GOOD things happen to BAD people? WOULD SOMEONE PLEASE ENLIGHTEN ME? There I was, just minding my own business, checking my email ....ok ok, i wasnt minding my own business, and i asked for it. Somone that i havent spoken a civil word to in, literally a century, but for some reason i STILL have on my instant messenger, posts the link to her blog.

 Ok, ok i know why i still have her on my instant messenger, because i periodically check to see if perhaps she's developed an incurable disease... ok, ok, i dont want her to die, but perhaps be unhappy, un wed, living in new jersey...WORSE...OHIO! YES! Living in Ohio with a child,and she's not sure of the father, constantly reminding her of all the mistakes shes made in her life and maybe, oh maybe her life could have turned out differently IF SHE HAD ONLY BEEN A NICE PERSON!!!!

So....hoping to have these woes, trials and sorrows ennumerated for all the web to see, ...i went to the blog. Sadly, she is blissfully happy living with her fabulous (and might i add, fabously rich) husband a georgous set of flatware, a house, and a dog. If this lovely mental image of disguisting perfection werent enough....SHE"S GOT PICTURES over 200 snapshots of the honeymoon (in Paris), the anniversary in Bermuda, the vacation aboard the family yacht! Someone SHOOT ME NOW!

Okok...I didnt have to "view the slideshow".....subject myself to the torture...but ...being morbidly curious....who knows? if there was a fair and just God, maybe she got fat! Sadly no....great body as always...but....apparently her husband can't afford a nose job for his wife. oh well. That is some consolation.